Saturday, May 31, 2008

Home again, home again, jiggedy jig

Dad was in Physical Therapy for an hour and forty-five minutes today before lunch, and another hour and forty-five minutes after lunch!  He said the therapists were surprised to see him continuing to do his routines even after the timer dinged.  He made them laugh, though, when he explained that he was trying to make himself strong enough to "escape." 

His spirits continue to improve and he is more like his old self than I've seen him in a long time.  This makes me feel much better about going back home tonight!  Of course, Mom & Dad have many friends that will look after them in my absence.

I miss my sweet man and can hardly wait to see him again!

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Friday, May 30, 2008

On the path to recovery

With all the work in Physical Therapy and the return of his usual disposition, I am sure that Dad is safely on the path to recovery.  Of course, we never know what is going to happen in the long term, but my Daddy is definitely okay for the short term. 

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Thursday, May 29, 2008

Physical therapy

They wasted no time in getting Dad started on his Physical Therapy today.  He worked with the therapists for a couple of hours doing an assortment of assignments to help strengthen his arms so he would be able to lift himself more easily up to his walker.  He cooperated with them without hesitation because he wants to get out of her and get back home as soon as possible.  I am very proud of my Daddy!  Before long he will be strong again!

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Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Rehab, at last!

Today Dad was discharged from the hospital and sent to a convalescent care facility!  Yay!  They are holding a room for Dad and we just have to complete some paperwork when he is admitted.  The place is actually a "nursing home" that doubles as a rehabilitation center for patients who need Physical Therapy (PT).  So, there are many people there who are elderly and will probably be there for the rest of their lives, in addition to some not-so-elderly who are there to regain the use of limbs and eventually be discharged.

I have always thought nursing homes to be sad places.  Half of the people have no clue why they are there.  The other half know why they are there but can't do anything about it.

Fortunately, my father has full use of his faculties and knows why he is there, plus he has the determination to follow the therapy routine so that hopefully he can regain his former level of independence.

For safety's sake, the doctor at the hospital insisted that Dad be transported by EMS to the nursing home, so Mom and I went ahead in her car to begin processing the paperwork.  We got Dad settled into the room without a problem and he seemed thrilled to be out of the hospital at last and on his way to true recovery.

Oh, and the nursing home / rehab center is closer to Mom & Dad's house than the hospital, so Mom won't have to drive as far to see him once I return to my own home!

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Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Hoping for discharge

Dad's spirits are improving daily and the hospital staff are thinking he will be ready to be discharged tomorrow!  Of course, the final say will be from the physician who makes the rounds in the morning.  We are definitely keeping our fingers crossed because Dad is getting a serious case of "cabin fever."  He is able to get out of bed with assistance and sit in a chair in the hospital room for a short while, but he is not able to leave the room. He can't sit for too long in the chair, either, because of the pressure on his hip.  Perhaps once he is out of the hospital and is admitted to a rehab / convalescent center, Mom and I can begin to get a teensy bit more rest each day.

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Monday, May 26, 2008

Aunt & uncle visiting

My father's twin brother and younger sister came to visit him today!  The pastor at my uncle's church drove them.  They brought a homemade cake to cheer Dad's spirits.  It has been quite a long time since I have seen either of them so it was lovely seeing them again!

The neighbor across the street from my Mom & Dad's house brought over a Sweet Potato Pie also, so there are plenty of goodies for Dad to enjoy!

The picture accompanying this blog entry is my father in 1954.  He was a nice-looking man!

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Sunday, May 25, 2008

Room with a view

Dad  was doing so much better today that he was discharged from CCU and moved back into a regular hospital room!  Yay! 

The constant running to-and-fro from the hospital is really tiring on me, and I am sure Mom is feeling it much worse than I am.  We want to keep Dad company, though, and stay on top of the progress he is making!

The picture accompanying this blog entry is my mother in 1954.  She is much prettier than me, but everyone tells me there is a strong resemblance in facial features.  Even people at the hospital who didn't know us commented on it.

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Saturday, May 24, 2008

Monkey Dust

Dad was coherent today and doing much better.  His blood pressure  and pulse rate were improved, but his red blood count and hemoglobin were still low.  CCU decided to give him more blood transfusions to try to improve his condition.

Sadly, CCU apparently failed to tell Dad that Mom and I were up there all day yesterday and again last night, so when Dad awoke he thought he had been abandoned.  That really tore me up.    We reassured him that we had been at the hospital all during his surgery and with him in CCU when he was still flakey from the anesthesia, but he remembers none of it.  We stayed at the hospital all day until early evening, then went to get something for supper.

Mom wanted an omelette, so we went to IHOP and split a mushroom & spinach omellette and an order of their Stuffed French Toast.  Then we hit Publix to pick up a few groceries.  I had not been inside a Publix since I moved away from Florida three years ago.  I was shocked to find they had one of my favorite seasonings that is not available in Tennessee!  Officially, it is called "Everglades Seasoning."  Unofficially, fans call it "Monkey Dust."    I am so glad to find a source for it not so far away!

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Friday, May 23, 2008

CU n CCU

Dad's surgery was scheduled for late in the afternoon, so Mom and I took our time in the morning doing some housework.  We got a phone call a little after 11:00 am from the hospital reporting that another patient's surgery had to be postponed and they had moved Dad's surgery forward.  He was being wheeled into pre-surgery prep right at that moment!  So, Mom and I clean-up from the chores we were doing and get ready to go.  Mom was ready before I was, so she left first in her car and I followed in mine shortly thereafter.

Mom and Dad's pastor just happened to be there to visit Dad that morning, and he stayed with Mom and me during the surgery.  He is a very nice man and it was comforting to have him there.

When the surgery was over, the surgeon reported that the repair of the hip was successful.  However, Dad lost a lot of blood during the surgery.  He said that with the types of surgery he performs, it isn't unusual for a patient to lose as much blood as would fill a standard soft-drink can.  However, Dad lost almost a two-liter bottle's worth of blood.  Because of Dad's already-frail state, the volume of blood lost, and Dad's low blood-pressure reading after surgery, the surgeon moved him to CCU (Critical Care Unit, this hospital's version of what is known as "ICU" at most hospitals).  When he awoke from the anesthesia, he began thrashing around and attempted to hit one of the male RNs that was attending him and had to be restrained.  He was probably too weak to have actually caused the RN any harm, but they were afraid that he was going to pull-out his IV tube and disconnect the monitors that were keeping tabs on his blood pressure, pulse rate, respiration, etc.  They removed the restraints at one point when he ceased being combative, but his continued thrashing-about forced them to place them on again.

After a couple of hours in CCU, Dad's condition stabilized somewhat and we were allowed to see him.  He was still under the effects of the anesthesia, though, and wasn't himself at all.  He proclaimed himself ready to leave the hospital since his surgery was over and thought Mom and I were in-league with the hospital for not letting him go home immediately.  He thought we were trying to get rid of him.  Damn, anesthesia does strange things to one's mind.  The presence of Mom & Dad's pastor hrough this weird and painful experience helped tremendously — he really is a jewel.  The RN assigned to him gave Dad an intravenous shot of pain medication and he quickly drifted back to sleep.  The pastor left, and Mom and I went home to rest for a short while.

We returned to the hospital an hour-and-a-half later to find him still asleep.  We sat beside his bed for over an hour-and-a-half but he never woke up, so we went back home to try to rest.

The picture accompanying this blog entry is my father, not so many years ago.

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Thursday, May 22, 2008

Transfusions

Dad is in a very disagreeable mood about everything and snapping at Mom.  I know he is in a lot of pain, but it is crushing Mom's spirits to have him snapping at her the way he's doing.  I'm not passing judgement — heck, I would probably be a much worse patient than he is if I were in his position — I am just reporting.  He is disagreeable mostly because this process is dragging-out over a longer period of time than he would like.  The sooner they can do the surgery, the sooner he can begin healing and rehabilitating.

They're planning to give him blood transfusions tonight to try to speed-up his getting into surgery.  Besides the fact that his blood is thin from the Plavix®, his red blood cell count is low because of the stroke a few years ago (He goes for periodic Procrit® shots, much like many post-cancer patients require).  The hospital hopes that the blood transfusions will thicken his blood as well as boosting his red blood cell count.  Three transfusions are planned, at the rate of three hours for each pint to trickle into his IV tube.

Mom and I didn't feel like cooking, so she took me to Silver Bay seafood restaurant for a shrimp dinner.  We picked up a few groceries at Publix on the way home.  A phone call from my cousin, June, when we got home revealed that she has rheumatic fever.  Sheesh.

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Risky business

Dad is in better spirits today, but still in a lot of pain.  The medicine they are giving him is Loritab®.  Blood tests today showed that his blood is still so thin that surgery would be risky.

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Blood is thicker than water...?

The brakes on my car have been making a rubbing noise lately, signaling the brake pads needed replacing, so I had to get the brakes fixed before I could take the car on a long trip. Fortunately, my mechanic was able to work me in yesterday evening and only charged me $40 for the work!  Yay!

Went by work and talked to my boss about the situation.  He was very sympathetic and didn't have a problem with my taking some unpaid time-off to be with my Mom & Dad during the upcoming ordeal.  Don and I had dinner at Amato's, a lovely little Italian restaurant in town, after which I went home to pack.

So, today I drove to the family home, hugged Mom, carried my things into the house, then we left for the hospital.  Dad is in a lot of pain but holding up okay.

I was able to find out more about what happened.  Although he was hurting a lot after the fall, Dad didn't realize at first that he had broken his hip — he thought he had merely bruised himself badly.  He had Mom bring his crutches to him (left over from when he had knee-replacement surgery preformed a few years ago) and attempted to get up so that he could get to his easy chair.  He stood up but wasn't able to put weight on his left leg.  Amazingly, he was able to take a few steps and make it out into the hallway before he fell a second time.  When he fell, a small armoire that was in the hallway fell on him, causing a nasty bump on his head.  He realized at that point that something was terribly wrong and asked Mom to call 911.

He was rushed to their hospital of choice, eightish miles away.  Because he has been taking Plavix® for several years since he had a stroke, his blood was too thin for surgery to be performed immediately.  The doctor estimated that it would take three-to-four days before conditions would be  right.

So, we wait. 

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Monday, May 19, 2008

My father broke his hip

My father was getting ready to go to church when his knee gave-way (due to arthritis) and he fell on the hard, tile floor in my parents' bathroom.  My mother called 911 and Dad was transported to the hospital in an ambulance.  He had been taking a prescription blood-thinner for several years, so his doctor said they have to wait three or four days for that medication to be out of his system before they can operate.  Fortunately, the doctor says it is a single fracture, requiring at least one rod and a couple of screws for the repair.  The situation could have been much worse.

Since my mother is dealing with all of this by herself, I am making plans as fast as I can to go down there (three hours away) tomorrow and stay for a few days to help her.  I won't have access to a computer while I am there, so if you don't see me online for a few days, that is what's happening.  I will be reachable by cell phone and SMS, though.

My mother has always been in more frail health than my father.  I really thought it would be to her that something like this happened — not my father.

On a humorous note...  Had my father not been getting ready to go to church, perhaps he would not have fallen.  This is proof that organized religion is dangerous! 



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Sunday, May 11, 2008

The girl who was a duck

I dreamed that I was walking outside when a tiny little creature came running up to me through the grass.  It was so small that at first I couldn't tell what it was.  It jumped up and slammed itself into my lower leg, over and over.  I finally bent over and saw that it was a very tiny baby duck, all fluffy and yellow.

Then I realized that it was jumping up and bumping itself into my leg because it wanted me to pick it up.  So, I reached out with both hands (even though it was incredibly tiny) and lifted it up it front of me as I stood upright again.  Suddenly, it wasn't a duck that I was holding, but a little girl, perhaps two years old or so.  She had beautiful, dark hair and soft brown eyes.  She was the little girl that my husband and I were going to adopt.

Considering that my husband is 63 and I am rapidly approaching 53, it was ludicrous to dream that we were making plans to adopt a child.  Such is the world of dreams.

I love children.  I used to melt every time I saw a little baby, wishing that I could have another child in addition to the one I already had.

Perhaps I dreamed of adopting a child because of all the wonderful children that I've known over the years that are no longer a daily part of my life.
Chris, Rebecca, Nicole,
Kimberly, Ashley, Nicky,
Erin, Katie,
Adam, Alex, Andrea,
David, Scott, Chris,
Keona, Emily,
and others...

As my husband often reminds me when I have trouble accepting things as they are, "Life is what it is."

But I still miss those children sometimes, and hearing their laughter as they play.  And I also miss those little girls who once were ducklings like me.

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Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Kiss Kiss

Love this song!
"Kiss Kiss" by Parov Stelar



















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Thursday, May 1, 2008

Do you T·W·I·T·T·E·R?

You should seriously check out TWITTER.COM if you haven't already. It is like a real-time mini-blog where you can post snippets of the latest news or what you're doing. The beauty of it is that you can post entries by sending a text message from your cell phone (or yeah, do it the old-fashioned way on the Web).

Those who are "following" you can get updates through several different methods — by going to your profile page on the Twitter site, by reading the updates on the "widget" that you place on your MySpace page (or other website), via RSS feed to the FireFox browser, via a standalone app on the computer desktop, or via texts to their cell phone. Talk about flexibility! w00t!

If any of you sign up for Twitter, be sure to tell me your user name so I can stalk you!

CLICK HERE to read a story about Twitter on the ABC News site.

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